I want to watch it less, specially so I don’t desensitise my penis itself to masturbation and therefore have sex not feel particularly good. I also want to feel less guilty when I do watch it
Just not use it at all and be good with that
Not think of it as a reason for not having sustained erections and stop feeling guilty.
When I’m bored I’ll do something creative or workout instead of picking up my phone and watching porn
I do not wish to use porn at all. I am convinced it has ruined me and may ruin mine & my girlfriends relationship. I’d like to go ‘cold turkey’ if I can at least until I establish what my health concerns are regarding ED
I would like to view porn seldomly
I used to watch porn often but now I feel it is wrong for me as I am now a born again Christian. So I stopped watching it almost 2 years ago.
I want to find other self-soothing techniques, because I currently use porn as a quick and easy way to relieve stress.
Sometimes when I watch porn I’ll be skipping back and forwards through the video and going between different videos to find the perfect visual stimulation, which I think I should avoid doing. Real sex is different every time and I’m doing that WITH another person, I don’t always get to control what’s happening in that scenario, and I think I should get more used to that.
I want to use it to increase my intimacy with my partner.
If it’s only my joy, and my obsession, then I feel I’m being selfish.
I just have to rely on my girlfriend telling me fantasies about her being with other men
I want to stop procrastinating by looking at it. Only a week back I looked at it for 3 whole hours, while edging, before getting anything done.
I want to become more conscious and aware that the performance of the people in porn is not a realistic example of normal humans having sex.
Taboo situations and creampies have me in a chokehold. I also think I always visualize things from a 3rd person perspective.
I think I don’t need to watch it. So I’d like to stop using it. But I hope there’s a way i can do so positively rather than look at it like a poison.
I don’t want to rely on porn to be turned on. I want to stay in the present moment with a woman. I think porn and masturbation has made me more comfortable by myself and I want to be relaxed sexually outside of watching porn
My relationship with porn is so complex and I resonated with Cam’s experience, almost to a tee. Porn became my way to process emotion and feeling at an early age, due to trauma. It was the way that I survived and stayed focused on my goals in life. The way that I dealt with bad emotions. The way that I understood sex. I would like to eventually stop - to tap into my other senses and become more aware of them. To feel my emotions again and to stop using porn as a soothing agent.
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I want to stop watching porn and connect more with my wife. I feel like everyone I know can see me when I watch porn, and I even feel bad for some of the women who are being f****d for money and fame when they don’t even really want it, or they don’t even cum or orgasm. I even feel sometimes like they are being brutally banged in a hurtful way that isn’t loving. It makes me feel as though I myself and taking advantage of them as well even if I’m not the one banging them. I want to cease watching porn all together, so that it doesn’t prevent me from working on my passions.
I do not want to watch porn ever again
Not to rely on it to get hard, and to be able to stay hard without it.