What are you discovering with directed masturbation exercises?

I didnā€™t realize the guy who narrates the coming attractions at the cinema is now directing masturbation. Voice needs work but I did enjoy the exercise, hoping this helps me continue to make progress and build confidence.

I definitely have an easier time being more in the moment during this exercise if I meditated before hand feels like Iā€™m unlocking new pleasurable sensations.

More about the different sides and angles of my penis.

Itā€™s surprising to discover that I can focus on touch and pleasure and get out of my head!

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It seems itā€™s hard to get aroused just from my own touch without any visual stimulation. Hopefully more of these exercises will help switch that

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I suppose that Iā€™m discovering or training myself to just generally relax more and enjoy the overall experience and ā€œthe journeyā€ as the narrator said. Just trying to let go of that ā€œseek and destroyā€ kind of mindset with myself and allow myself to be more aware and open to more subtle pleasures that help the overall experience.

I have discovered newfound sensitivity. After meditating and following the directions to self-directed masturbation I continued to play on my own. Within two minutes I had a mind blowing orgasm. The quickest in well over 10 years

getting hard

Once the exercise is over and I can focus on what Iā€™m feeling instead of listening to instructions I become aroused quite easy. I also noticed that my arousal comes from touch alone as I donā€™t recall imagining and visual stimuli to become aroused.

With each passing exercise, Iā€™m able to reduce the spectatoring in my mind.

That I was masturbating in the most effective (quickest) manner to ejaculate rather than doing so for actual enjoyment and to explore my body

That touch really turns me on too, That I rely fair too much on visual stimulation i.e porn. But why I use porn is because I want to climax quickly which is handy if I donā€™t have much time but not good in real life bedroom situations with someoneā€¦the mind over thinks with negative thoughts, I literally nose dive in confidence when itā€™s time for intercourseā€¦ But hopefully this will helpšŸ‘

I feel more aroused with a different type of touch on my penis versus what is normally used and ā€œefficientā€

Iā€™m definitely desensitized from feeling being touched either by myself or by my partner. It will be a great success reattach to my body and senses during these practices.

Nothing significant yet, Iā€™ll have to keep trying.

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still not really sexual for me; but I did notice some pleasant sensations from small detailed touches that I normally would overlook

Relying less on the visual sense and more on you h again. Rediscovering an amazing sensation

I like it, itā€™s relaxing

I tend to rush masturbation to reach the finale. It was nice to allow myself to allot some time and just be sensual and explorative.

i donā€™t get aroused easily from light touch