I find oral sex hard to cum, as so used to masturbating myself
Start slowly and range from rough to soft. Keep it varied and be passionate. If hard focus more on harder play but make sure it’s varied.
Passion and enjoyment are the key for me
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ball squeezing!
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Rougher th better
When she slowly plays with it before starting to jerk me
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I prefer frenulum-licking and the forme handed swirl HJ with the top in the mouth. I also love driving my head on the pubic bone during PIV
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I like to add a full body approach as well. When they get close to cumming, I like to wrap my free around their body, either under a lofted leg, or grab a butt cheek. Then I can hold them steady during convulsions. And then, no mess!
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I like it when she slightly squeezes at the very bass of my shaft pushing against my pelvis. This forces more blood into my erection and makes me so thick and hard and sensitive to her touch.
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Firm is key. Applying confidence in all motions is hot to me and it’s almost always guaranteed to feel good even if it’s different
When giving oral, stopping to jerk it a few times before continuing is so hot
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Better for woman maybe?
Using a range of motion helps and alternating so things don’t get sensitive
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I’ve only ever gotten off to a BJ once. It was great
Tbh, I find it so hard to tell my partner exactly what I want, cos I don’t know myself. I know how to make myself feel good and cum, but that’s because I’m getting real time feedback on what feels good.
But general advice to ladies, just try lots of variation and experimentation. Try stroking with different speeds and pressures…different sensations feel good depending on what stage of erection/arousal he’s at.
There’s soooo much advice out there for how to pleasure vulvas, and barely anything that helps people understand that penises are also highly complex with different regions that have different sensitivities.
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Swipe that finger lightly back and forth on the taint close to the anus while giving a blowjob and get ready for the explosion. I only like being touched under the balls after arousal but once I’m there and this move can be used, it’s over everytime. Especially great for HJs
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I’m the Wrong person for this question
We should mention your headspace when receiving a blow job. I tend to wander away in my mind and get soft. Other than that the tricks mentioned before work well 
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I find it hard to cum when receiving oral sex and the focus on my penis makes it hard to not overthink about going soft.
As a result I tend to avoid receiving head.
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69 tends to work better for me than other oral since it gives me something to do and my mind doesn’t wander as much
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Frenulum best for getting started but to finish I need firm pressure at the base. Her on top or me behind works best for that.