What are the best lubes for sex and foreplay?

Sometimes I use a lube and if we don’t immediately penetrate, like if she’s jacking me off, it gets sticky. What are the best lubes for foreplay and sex? Which can be used for handjobs and for penetrating sex?

Durex massage lube ylang ylang seems really good.
Goes sticky if you are using it for massage, but good for…. “Tight apertures” and hand jobs.
Tried something called fun time original stimulating lube… not so good.

I have found Astroglide works best for me. Not the gel kind though. If you want to try a sample I think you can go to their website and request one.

For water based lube I like JO. It stays slippery and cleanup is easy. If you’re not using condoms two words “coconut oil”. I use it to give my partner a nice massage before sex. And its nicer if you like switching back and forth from sex to oral, which I do because when I get soft I like to give oral till I get hard again (fingers crossed). Its also great for your skin. If you ever decide to give the little dude a clean shave it’ll prevent razor bumps.

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Coconut oil….game changer….

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