What are the best lubes for sex and foreplay?

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Sometimes I use a lube and if we donā€™t immediately penetrate, like if sheā€™s jacking me off, it gets sticky. What are the best lubes for foreplay and sex? Which can be used for handjobs and for penetrating sex?

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Durex massage lube ylang ylang seems really good.
Goes sticky if you are using it for massage, but good forā€¦. ā€œTight aperturesā€ and hand jobs.
Tried something called fun time original stimulating lubeā€¦ not so good.

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I have found Astroglide works best for me. Not the gel kind though. If you want to try a sample I think you can go to their website and request one.

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For water based lube I like JO. It stays slippery and cleanup is easy. If youā€™re not using condoms two words ā€œcoconut oilā€. I use it to give my partner a nice massage before sex. And its nicer if you like switching back and forth from sex to oral, which I do because when I get soft I like to give oral till I get hard again (fingers crossed). Its also great for your skin. If you ever decide to give the little dude a clean shave itā€™ll prevent razor bumps.

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Coconut oilā€¦.game changerā€¦.

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I tried Woo coconut oil. Not best for condoms, but I love it. Silky smooth. Lasts long and cleanup is easy. Next morning itā€™s mostly gone. Coconut oil is a moisturizer anywayā€¦
Smells and tastes good too.

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Gf is 53 and getting through menopause.
Not getting wet is an annoying side effect of menopause. I recall when we first got together a year ago she was sooooo wet it was almost annoying. A year later she often does not get wet. She got embarrassed as I did when my ED came into play. She was worried that Iā€™d be disappointed or think that she wasnā€™t into me JUST LIKE WE THINK WOMEN FEEL WHEN WE LOSE ITā€¦.
My point is (esp for us gen xersā€¦) keep a good lube handy and if she ainā€™t gettin wet, donā€™t make a big deal or even mention it. Just grab the lube and move on.
I be done it several times and she is very appreciative of me just as I appreciate her being patient with my PEDā€¦

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Yes it is silicone base and it does not get sticky

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Water based lube last the longest and is also the safestā€¦