What affirmations work for you?

You’re decent. We can do this.

Not really

I stopped thinking submissively and started thinking more dominantly with my penis. Kept praising it and celebrating it and how people want it.

We are going to get through this together, we’re a team and I love you buddy

We have had some amazing times together so I’m happy we are working together to have them again.

Very much in the moment. We ‘are’ sorting this, not that we ‘will’ sort it. I found very few negative thoughts, but then I rarely do when it is just me. I think I will continue as second time around, if anything it was harder not to get slightly erect

You’re a perfectly healthy and strong penis.
You enjoy being hard inside your wife.

Hang in there you can do this

never give up, with hard work we can overcome any issue.

I would just say, “I love you and nothing could ever change that.” I would also say, "I dont need to he hard now. Whatever happens is ok and human.

I would just say, “I love you and nothing could ever change that.” I would also say, "I dont need to he hard now. Whatever happens is ok and human. I like "We will get through this together, and I will love you regardless.

Affirmations that state my penis and I are not these separate alien or opposing entities but actually one in the same physically and emotionally in terms of what we ultimately want seemed to be the most profound. Also saying it’s just as beautiful as my knee or elbow or belly button helps get my head out of the clouds and back into reality. It’s just another part of my body.

We’re getting there and moving in the right direction.

The fact that one bad relationship where I had trouble getting hard doesn’t negate all the other relationships or sexual encounters where there were no issues. Additionally, I have to enjoy what I have in size. May not be the biggest, but it does alright when it works…no more penis shaming

It’s just the pressure of the moment, you don’t have a physical issues and it’s all in your head, you have to relax and remember she loves you no matter what, remember sex is supposed to be enyojable for everyone involved

We are making progress together and we are a team. We are working together. You are just another part of my body. It is okay to be soft. I will take care of you.

I know all of this is in my head. Already making dates with multiple girls. Getting out of my head is the final step

Telling my member - you don’t need to be anything, hard soft, doesn’t matter. Let your brain run wild and get turned on but your penis doesn’t have to do anything in response unless it wants to

We’re a team!

My penis is a great part of me that is responsible for so much pleasur. I let him know that we work as a team and that I will set him up for success so he can do his job.