Want to start a family

Hi All. My wife and I have been married for nearly three years. I had an instance of erectile dysfunction on my honeymoon that has caused me mental struggles ever since. I’ve gone through periods where sex came easier and more naturally, and I’ve also gone through periods where I really struggled to get/stay hard. I’ve found that planned sex doesn’t work for me. It almost always leads to anxiety/panic throughout the day and erectile struggles. Recently my wife and I have decided to stop using protection and we would like to get pregnant.

When her ovulation time came around, I couldn’t perform. It was extremely frustrating for the both of us. Any one else experienced this? Tips to overcome this? I don’t want this to send me into another rough patch of anxiety.