I have been with my partner for about 12 years now and she was always more than happy for me to fondle her breasts (huge turn on for me). However, ever since we had kids and she started breastfeeding she (understandably) felt overly sensitive and didn’t really want me touching them as much during intimate moments so I assumed that when she stopped breastfeeding it would improve. She hasn’t been breastfeeding now for nearly a year and she still feels weird about me touching them when we are getting intimate. She did let me touch them over her bra once last week which was a huge step forward but only for about 10 seconds before she felt too awkward. She doesn’t feel the same about having sex, it’s just the touching of her breasts which has always been a huge turn on for me. Has anyone else experienced this and found ways to improve it or is it just permanent?
I can see that.
X wife hated her boobs played with from day 1.
She would allow me to play a little bit…
New gf absolutely loves her boobs and nipples played with. I always feel like I’m getting away with something or that she’s letting me play for my pleasure… nope. She loves it!
- She likes playing with mine too (I’ve begun to like it as well!!)
