Ever since my wife gave birth to our children, I have slowly but surely noticed she has been more and more reluctant for me to touch / stroke her breasts which in return can have a knock on effect on my sexual stimulation and getting erections. For me touching them has always been something of a huge turn on but I always assumed it would improve after breast feeding stopped (which it has for a while now) but she still doesn’t feel comfortable with me touching them during sex. Is this something else anybody has experienced or does anyone have any strategies on how I could make her feel comfortable with it again? I’m hoping it’s just a phase to be honest
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Interesting.
My x wife of 23 yrs always hated her D/DD boobs/nipples played with.
New gf (B cups with absolute prize winner nipples) loves her nipples played with. To the point I believe I can make her cum someday just from nipple play…
I cannot believe how playing with a woman’s nipples can affect my own level of excitement!
Sorry brother.
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Hi,
I went through a very similar situation, my wife once told me she didn’t feel like her body was her own. The baby and i were always clambering for her boobs. And they didn’t feel sexy anymore because they were for feeding the kids. I am definitely not a therapist but In my relationship if I were to set time aside and date her again, regain an emotional connection, out side of talking about the kids and work. You know what I’m talking about! You will be sucking on them tittys bro.
I really wish I had that advice 3 years ago.
I know how busy work is, bills get tight.
Do something spontaneous, that you know she will like! Hopefully that helps
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I can totally relate to this. My wife recently had a lift and a tummy tuck she’s been working super hard and lost 100 pounds. She looks amazing and her bra look better than ever but it’s super sore. Breast and nipple play have been a huge part of our sex life to the point where she can literally cum with nipples stimulation only. And I also feed off of this as it’s a huge turn on and makes me rock hard . My advice would be as my wife says don’t just go straight for the nipples. Work your way in slowly and wait till she is fully turned on and in the moment . Also talk to her about how much it turns you on . If she knows how much you feed off of it that should be a huge turn on for her as well ! Hope this helps !
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