Im scared to top my boyfriend because bottoming hasn’t been working for me but im nervous about maintaining or getting an erection and I’ve never topped before
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I feel you. Even though I love bottoming, I’ve never been able to top a guy in my entire 25 years. I tried so many times with different guys and my dick went flaccid. I think I have to wait for the right one. You can talk with your boyfriend and tell him, that you want to try but that you’re very insecure about your erection. Just tell him, that you want to take it slow and if it doesn’t work, you try another time.
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It’s a vicious cycle. Your fear of going soft is what will make you soft. Best way around it is to communicate, hopefully that puts you at ease so that your can relax and that will allow your body to give you an erection 
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