Hey guys,
Definitely feel like the app is helping in different ways and appreciate feeling less alone with it all but still feeling stuck inside myself most days, wondering if anything will ever change.
Just feels like such a mountain to climb with any new potential partner in terms of explaining the issue and them understanding and not rejecting. It makes me want to withdraw from potential relationships entirely to save the crippling embarrassment. Wondering if anyone feels similar? Any encouragement/insights appreciated.
Sending my best to everyone.
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It’s definitely a mountain to climb but I’d suggest the following:
As you climb it you will grow tremendously. Yes you will fail at times, and yes at times it might be very embarrassing — but working through those things will help you in all areas of life not just this one.
And remember in the end you only really need to get it right once. Just don’t be too hard on yourself and remember that you’re not alone in going through these challenges!
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I feel the same hey. Just remember from the training that you’ll be amazed as to how many women aren’t reliant on penetration for their sexual pleasure. Watch Sex Live and Goop on nextflix. Some people are energetic or sensual or kinky, not just sexual in the conventional sense. Think of it as an internal journey of growth, exploring different parts of yourself and unlearning. That’s what I’m doing - the challenge isn’t overcome yet but there are small wins along the way. xoxo
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