Focusing on the clit during oral
Fingering while using a suction toy, then moving to missionary with a pillow under her hips.
G spot with the fingers while licking the clit has always been successful for me
Making a woman cum from oral is partly about being commited to getting there.
If she plateaus, I shift my position so that my shoulders and her legs are higher and increase the level of enthusiasm. Timing it right is the key.
I think women sometimes think men get tired of doing it. Show her you love doing it and it’s easier for her to let go.
It’s been my experience that while stimulating her g-spot with your 2 fingers inside her vagina and applying a little pressure with your other hand on her pubic hair area to work the g-spot from inside and outside has shown some good results. Apply some mouth sucking on clit and she may tap out ready for penetration
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Definite oral with fingering
Varying mouth fingers and penetration over as long as I can hold out. Enthusiastic oral with eye contact. Being super open to using her toys as well. We’re into BDSM, so my girlfriend cums extra hard with her ankles locked in a spreader bar and pushed up above her head.
New relationship, 2 months-My girl has expressed that she particularly enjoys external stimulation by hand so i have made this my go. Initially, stimulation via hand, leading to tongue has been my go to in the past regarding non penetrative sex acts but she expressed self consiosnes when i was doing these thing- although the still led to the "finish line’. Oral is something i enjoy doing so so i am looking forward to applying these tips and hopefully building her self-confidence to be able to enjoy more freely
What worked best with my ex was to lick around her aurelola and get to the nipple and start sucking, that would turn her on like crazy and me as well.
Hitting the g spot with my fingers was also fun, while also caressing her body or kissing
I do the oh thing and lightly vacuum. She loves that!
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Take her to nearly cumming a few times before backing off 3 back offs is good by the time she gets there for the last time she will be begging you to keep going and have a much more intense orgasm
Two fingers, curl as if you’re trying to beckon them over to you. Works a charm.
Alternating between tapping and rubbing the g spot
Nipple play and g spot stimulation has always been my go to.
I think of sex as a garden. You create a space, work the soil, plant the seeds, etc. it’s a really fun analogy, but what it comes down to is that sex isn’t just about the harvesting (orgasm). It takes days. It requires maintenance.
I generally go for the 2-3 fingers stimulating the g-spot while sucking on the clit
I like starting from the top and working my way down her body. Kissing her lips, neck, down to her titties, all over her stomach, to her legs, then eating that thangg till she’s screaming. I like licking everything on a gals body and they like it too if they are comfortable and confident.
Taking it slow…until you don’t. Take the time to explore her body, building up the moment with penetration being the last and final thing. There’s so much to explore and touch before getting there.
don’t sleep on stimulating the g spot + abdominal pressing in the same location from the other direction
Also don’t sleep on stimulating the back of the clit from inside the vagina esp while you stimulate the outside
If ur lost on where to go with fingers inside the vagina press firmly but tenderly on the upper wall looking for long ridges (idk what they are but consistently they track nerves through all the pleasure spots)
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If they enjoy a bit of pain (talk with your partner) lightly lick the inside of their thigh then gently bite there and notice a reaction good or bad then go back to moving in towards their vulva. Never bite the same area twice and definitely talk with them about this, super sensitive area but when mixed in it can be hot
First, communication is essential, and then the moves in your hips could be any position, but if you move, they love it