I still psyche myself out here and there, but stop smoking weed guys its killing your confidence. Daily smoker for years, I stopped and about a week later almost all my issues were taken care of. Get back in the gym, stop eating bullshit, but this is what I think helped me the most, laying the weed down.
Interesting. Can you elaborate how you feel then vs now? I feel like I may be in the same boat as you so Iām curious
Sure, when things get intimate I just get very anxious and I think weed makes your inner critic louder for certain people. Ive always had to almost hyper-focus to get where I need to be (which often backfired). I stopped smoking because I was having bad stomach issues, which Id almost bet you have some of too. Soon as it was out of my system things just became much simpler and I wasnt so self conscious. Even with those thoughts I can perform. I stopped dreading getting intimate. Definitely worth a try, you can do it if I could.