I feel like when I noticed this, is when my sex-mental kinda dropped. I remember back when i was maybe 16-18 i was pretty big (at least in my eyes). Fast forward to now, 21 years old, im down like 2-3 inches. Ive been addicted to porn and masturbation which i hate myself for doing but i feel like im slowly making progress on getting off it. Doesn’t help that my life went bad after losing a very serious friendship of 8 years that turned into a relationship, and the things that happened during my time as a Marine. I don’t really shoot for sex but the last few women I’ve been with i just felt very self conscious the whole time. Always thinking im not big enough💀, what shes thinking, am i doing the movements right, does she enjoy it, im not really enjoying it, etc… Ive been in a pit of no motivation or pleasure to do anything. I lost 25 pounds in 3 months but i started working for it again. Ive been working out and i do want to implement those kegel workouts or whatever theyre called into my routine to see if that helps. But does anyone have any other tips to better myself? I have a few women that keep asking to hook up but i wanna make sure im in the right headspace before i do so that way it’s enjoyable. Sorry for the long ahh constitution sized essay, just have so much built up from the last few years and ig since this anonymous i feel like i can open up freely. Thanks
all good bro i’m in the same boat and only 20 me and my girl are taking a break now because it’s been happening for about 5 months now i’m just so drained mentally and out of ideas im not sure what to do. I don’t want to take pills I just wanna be able to get it up naturally and i’m 100% attracted to her it’s just when the moment happens I freeze and can’t get anything up. how’d you fix it bro?
Hey man about your size…you just need to realise there’s nothing you can do to change that and accept it, just own your dick, it’s not about the size it’s about how you use it.
You can show a girl a great time with more than just your dick anyway
It’s ok, I am smaller than I was in my late teens early 20s but I also was the size of a twig then. Im probably 40-50 lbs heavier now but in decent shape and .5- .75in shorter, but still a good size.
It’s going to be hard but just let it go, I find myself to also be more aroused and bigger as a result with my wife, so comparing it solo may make a difference. Don’t stress, there’s nothing you can do to magically add a few inches, just take care of yourself physically and mentally and enjoy what you have! Good luck, you’ve got this!
It makes me feel a bit better to know Im not alone, but at the same time its heart breaking to hear others going through this. Im praying for yalls success. I feel like men dont get enough attention with this issue and get labelled as “not man enough” or whatever. 23 and havent gotten laid since my last relationship, which ended pretty badly due to substance use issues on my part. Sobered up and got my life together, but cant for the life of me find a partner. Its almost like Im invisible. And when a girl does send signals or present herself my mind says “you’re not good enough or big enough” or “she deserves a guy with a bigger dick”. Realizing im my own worst enemy. It also doesnt help that I got circumcised 6 months ago and it hasent healed properly, with a not so nice scar. Its been a fucking journey these past 2 years, i hope i can make some progress here. So glad this has a community function, social connection is important and nearly non existent in our society. I love you all, love yourself.