Should I tell new girlfriend before first sexual encounter or only after failed attempt?

100% communicate anything you’re unsure about. Great news: I’ve experienced really good sex immediately after admitting I was nervous about my ability to both get and keep an erection.

I had kept this fear/concern to myself many times and it almost always led to failure and disappointment.

Im pretty sure I’m batting 100% ever since I said, “$%#@ it” and finally communicated my fear(s) before the foreplay began.

Tip for Success: learn how to communicate your fears with sincerity and confidence - your partner is more likely to respect you when you bring this kind of energy :sunglasses::+1: