I just realized I rate every sexual encounter based on how hard (If present) my erection is and whether it lasts the whole “session”. I feel like an idiot.
We all do that.
I’ve tried to be more present and focus on fun and pleasure for both of us. If there’s a chance for penetration or for me to finish- that’s great!!
If not, imma do my best to lead her to the finish line at least 2-3 times……