As I go through the training here and try to just enjoy the moment and not worry or give in to my inner critic…. The worse I am. It’s been six months of dating (first date to current) and we’ve tried to have intercourse many many times. She really used to try and get me erect but now it’s fewer and fewer times and the efforts prove futile. My erection doesn’t get as big or hard as it once did. I’ve even went to pills and that’s been a no go no help situation. I bought a penis pump and I’m going to try that hopefully for this weekend. I’m desperate and don’t know how much further I can go on. I’m in therapy and went to dr (my T levels are normal).