My partner finds it very difficult to talk about sex but one thing she managed to open up to me about is that she prefers it when we have ‘quicker’ sex and she doesn’t like me stopping midway through (because I’m trying not to ejaculate too early).
I’m not sure how to take this, is this a gentle way of her saying she wants sex to be over quicker or is this a genuine thing that she actually finds it more enjoyable? As obviously as a man I find it easy to ejaculate quickly (
) but at the same time I’m not sure if that was she really wants? Is she trying to protect my feelings?
Positive spin, perhaps she loves the climax so much and wants to get there quickly, I could understand that. Does your partner ever initiate or want a second round? Maybe she has some discomfort which isn’t unusual.
Some people absolutely froth the buzz of hard and fast passionate sex, it’s not about the time, so much as how into it you both are.
Ask her, what is it that gives her a buzz about “quicker” sex, it might surprise you and you may be able to stop worrying about this dumb expectation society has that we all need to be triathletes in bed.
She’s just inpatient.
Don’t stress.
But she does need to learn how to relax and enjoy the moment by the sounds of it.
And needs to realise sex isn’t a sprint.
My ex was like this, she had no control over herself once we started she just wanted to climax as quick as possible. I’d be the DOMINANT man she wanted and tell her while firmly gripping her throat “ I’m F***ing you, so lay there and enjoy it, don’t worry your gonna finish exactly how you want.” the look in her eyes when I done that. Wowza
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As I’m playing with my gf, I’ve asked her to direct me to what/where she likes touch. She’s gotten used to it and anytime I’m near her clit she directs me toward it. While I appreciate the direction, I’m also a big teaser. I love to tease her pussy and whole body. I get close to her clit and create want which turns into need pretty quickly.
I plan to say something similar to what you said “I’m fucking you……” I think she’d really like that… 
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Glad I could put your mind at ease and maybe see it in a different light.
Do your thing king 
you got this
I’m currently trying a tactic where I start slow really slowly more kissing that anything then build up a bit then go for it, gives her time to warm up to it a bit then she can come quick and I find I then least a bit longer where she gets a 2nd or even third orgasm the lucky fecker! Either that or being her to orgasm in foreplay then get straight in and go hell for leather and she might go again
Does she come quick? If she comes quickly, she might just get bored or tired