My female partner really isn’t that into foreplay, but I need it to help get me aroused and hard. She just kind of lays there and lets me play with her but really doesn’t like to put much effort in until I’m hard and can penetrate her. It obviously stresses me out and we’ve talked about it before. Any tips or thoughts?
I would reflect on why she is not being receptor your communication. If you have communicated that you would enjoy to receive touch, there may be a different blockers at play. Consider directing her what you would like her to do to you specifically. I would imagine she would want to bring you pleasure. Perhaps she is not sure how she can fit into that equation for you during foreplay.