Met a girl at a club yesterday, everything was going well until we got down to it. Before that I was turned on and in the mood, yet the minute we tried penetration I just went soft. I got hard but not fully. I went down on her and still didn’t get it up. This is a real low point for me, I don’t know if I’ll ever get over this issue. I’m tryna stay positive but whatever I’m doing isn’t working. Feel like a bum
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Same brother
Stay strong bro, sometimes the spontaneous hook ups can add a bit more pressure and adds to the anxiety that kills boners. It took me a lot of awkward sexual experiences with a girl I trust but eventually using this app I manage to stay hard and have good time together.
The biggest thing for me was being able to fully relax in the moment and not think too much. All I think about now is purely focusing on everything I’m feeling and seeing and hearing. Be present and don’t think about being hard. It kinda helped me but I just thought about fuckin her hard as I was eating her out and I eventually couldn’t hold myself back. Felt way more natural.
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