Love a bj but i cannot hold back for toffee!

Hi there, new member here.

I’ll cut straight to the chase.

As soon as my Mrs gives me a blow job, I literally last about 10-15 seconds. It’s so frustrating, she is really good and I want to enjoy them but I get straight into my head and start worrying how long I’m (not) going to last then bam! So now I totally avoid them now so I can last longer during sex. Its Really embarrassing every time. How do pornstars last so long when getting smoked?!?!?

I hope there is some content within all this that helps me out.

Is anyone in the same situation and has any tips?

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Enjoy the 15-20 sec , think about it this way, she sees it as an absolute win and definitely feels proud of herself + most girls don’t even enjoy giving bj they just do it because it make the boyfriends feel good.

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Maybe switch it up a little. There are lots of ways to receive oral. Licking, focusing on the shaft or balls. The head is where you’re likely to climax too fast, so maybe ask that she works up to it. Deep breaths can help too. I agree though - she probably sees it as a massive compliment.

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Gees your girl must be good! What a compliment to her she can make you blow so quickly. You’re a lucky man!!

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Hoping that you are able to have the conversation with her that her bj’s are too good! Make sure you try and relax your buttocks, ask her to slow it right down, take mini breaks. Important to share what is going on for you - I am sure she wont mind. : )

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My wife is not into blowjobs at all. Haven’t had one in 12 years. Would love a 20 second one! Not putting you down or anything at all! Just a bit jealous and realize how lucky you are that you got an amazing “skilled” wife!

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My new girl
Is a very eager novice at head. Unfortunately I can’t stay hard for long yet….
I’m open about my Ed and she’s getting really good and asks questions all the time. Super enthusiastic. She enjoys it and so do I….

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I’ve also had to ask her to slow down and not just pay attention to under the head……