Ideal condom for perfect balance

Had some getting up trouble, with my gf, usually use these “Ultra Thin” kind condoms. Then started having too quickly cumming issue…so i went to a thick one with a numbing agent…that made me feel nothing and almost couldnt get it up (Had to switch back to the ultrathin mid sex)

Dont need specific brands but is there something thats not too sensitive but also not too “nothing” feeling. That perfect balance for the perfect length of time