Bit of a back story, first time I attempted to have sex was when I was 19 years old. The girl gave me head to try and get me going to no avail. I felt like a piece of crap. Second time with a different girl I was in the bed, she successfully got me hard with a handjob however I ejaculated instantly, that was the end of that. Third time (different girl) successful in getting me hard, first thrust, instantly ejaculated, that was also the end of that.
These occurrences were years apart. I finally got a girlfriend, we broke up recently after 6 years. We didn’t have sex for the last 4 years as she never wanted to try because “what’s the point”. The last time we had sex she started crying out of frustration.
I am now 30, recently had sex with an absolute stunner, such a nice person and I was really fucking into her. I was on cialis however cialis has never helped with my PE. This time however we went for like 10-15mins and she was loving it and I was loving it. The difference here i think I was genuinely enjoying sex and I wasn’t in my head with it at all. Second sexual encounter with her I struggled getting it up but she was really comforting about it and took her time. I ended up getting hard and honestly was better than the first time. It was the first time I actually got sensations throughout my body like pins and needles from cumming. I’m not in contact with this girl anymore as she thought I was too sex minded (kinda fair considering I was obsessed after the first time)
Biggest takeaway for me was it needs to be emotional and physical, not just sex for the sake of cumming as that never ever ended well.
It took 11 years lads but I finally had a good sexual encounter, I’ve just joined on Mojo for the trial as this experience has opened my eyes to the fact majority of these issues are psychological. Keep on going lads, we will get there. Would love to hear from others as well