How do you approach full-body arousal? Is there anything you’d like to know?

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My wife introduced me to impact play, I enjoy it much more than being blindfolded.

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Try having a discussion with her outside of the bedroom in some non-threatening situation, like in the kitchen after breakfast. Explain to her that you’d like to add some fun, and encourage her to take the lead with suggestions on things she might like. If she doesn’t want to talk about it, there are websites that have quizzes to show interest without embarrassing her.

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I feel really aroused when my wife kisses my neck and ears and I feel and hear her breath in my ear. And kissing passionately can really get me going.

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Yup, raise it in a non-sexual space. Also it might be that you’re being too keen (rather than she just likes saying “no”).
Good luck!

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Love exploring my partner’s body. Mixing in all parts of him. Touch, kiss, smell, licks. Using other things - feather, nails etc.

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Kissing everywhere and light touch or stroking, slowly moving down the body. Have tried spanking and hair pulling, but never blindfolds.

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How to rub the ears and feet to turn someone on

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I have been surprised by ear nibbling / sucking…it really turned me on

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Keep erection while putting a condom on

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I like interlocking hands in certain positions, feel a real sense of
Connection. Super hot

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I recently had a woman tongue the inside of my ear. It was amazing. I reciprocated and clearly it turned her on too.

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Everywhere is an erogenous zone at some point for me. Especially when aroused. Would have never asked for it before but getting my feet kissed and toes licked and sucked can feel amazing.

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I forgot to mention massages. Giving and/or receiving always leads to amazing sex for me.

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I approach it as an exploratory and worshipping experience. Simply wanting to touch and feel all over. And I like that as well.

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Lots of soft touch around the targets…nipples, vaginal areas…before I go there. Soft touch with finger tips on thighs, but, arms,etc

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I started giving my gf a foot and leg massage and I found myself getting really aroused by it. I’m caressing and enjoying rubbing her body. It’s quite relaxing

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I love integrating full body sensuality. My comment earlier under cunnilingus and the cowgirl variation illustration reflected this. It is so important, and I feel is the basis of being a tender and giving lover. I want to be a very generous, caring and considerate lover, one who is attentive. Generally, I think that’s what I am trying to do when I’m intimate with soneone, and if they recognize my sincerity and genuineness, I think they really dig the sensual touch and tender embrace I give them. I absolutely adore this aspect of intimacy, it’s arguably more important than any sort of “destination” like cumming, which I’m appreciating even more now that I’m learning to take the pressure off myself regarding “performing” and erections, and the result us more opportunity to have functional erections anyway and moments of closeness through penetration can occur (no pressure on cumming, anyway, just be close and enjoy each other’s bodies).

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I have experimented with spanking and pulling hair but didn’t explore it as much as was suggested here. Definitely interested in discussing it more with my partner and exploring these more

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I need to try integrating these into my experiences as well

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Enjoy all of the suggestions