Was there anything in this fantasy that got you excited?
It was kind of a turn off for me, rather than a simmer. What a bummer. It just came on so strong so fast without any teasing or innuendo.
It’s a bit too awkward to really feel aroused while listening to some of these but it does get across how hot the anticipation of sex can be and thinking about what you’ll do later is a good aphrodisiac. It’s helpful to be imagining sexy scenes that you can bring to life instead of worrying your boner isn’t gonna come thru
How excited I got when he said he wanted me to fuck him
Agreed!
I’ll start leaving him voicemails to up the arousal and anticipation of intimacy.
I could think of a hot friend who I’d like to fuck one more time.
Grindr is like this every time… The problem is the expectation is too high and dopamine goes down easily after some time.