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I’m going to stop watching porn from today and onwards, it’s affecting me negatively and I’m not here for it.
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As far as hardcore porn with nudity, I have not watched that in more than 3 months. However, when I masturbate, if it is not by imagination I sometimes will look at content that is softer and less hardcore than traditional porn. I believe this is a much healthier way to masturbate and I do not feel shame afterwards. With that said, it is still important to keep the log and focus on why you are masturbating. My masturbation habit is rooted out of boredom.
It seems I normally view erotic material when I’m bored. I could probably do more productive things when I’m in that mood
I’ve been trying to cycle it out to be a better lover for my partner, but I’m starting to worry that porn isn’t the problem
It all makes sense, but this now needs to be put into practice and is not a quick fix!
I am significantly reducing watching porn. Started shifting from videos to photos and then some text fantasies and it allowed to be more in control. Now I want to reduce its presence in my life even more so
I feel less bad about the actual watching of porn but realize I need to make changes in my consumption
I like that porn isn’t actually bad for sex performance, but needs to be controlled in some way
I have made changes in my habits. I think I am still dealing with the guilt of hurt I have caused and how there was no confidence in me changing. It felt like my journey of healing was written for me by someone else and that projection has fucked with me. It’s been over 60 days without porn. A part of me wants to show off and say hey I proved your projection wrong but I know it’s about me not her. It sucks to be stigmatized to certain outcome
I made the choice not to watch it. I’m going well so far.
I’m learning to slow down on watching it as much and catching myself when it’s not productive
i have accepted it as normal and theres no guilt in it, but it should be once a while thing
I shouldn’t feel so guilty but also not use it just because it’s a routine of mine.
It just becomes something to do, and that “something” ends up consuming an evening, potentially.
I feel like I use it a lot to fill in space for boredom or to alleviate stress. Replacing porn with other activities almost immediately makes me forget about wanting to use it and I never miss it.
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I think I need to completely cut it out
I need to stop for atleast 3 months to rewire my brain. That way I can allow my head to create fantasies again.
I definitely have a positive outlook on porn use and how to use it in a positive way
Going to log how I’m feeling and what’s going on around me when I have the urge. I feel it stems from stress and I’m curious to see if I’m right.
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