For context I’m young and healthy, ED purely psychological probably from embarassing previous experiences. Alchohol has always been the thing that I blame, whenever I drink I just know there is zero chance of me getting it up.
Last night I was drunk and had great sex without taking a chew. Sounds silly but this is probably the first time that’s ever happened. I think it’s a combination starting to feel comfortable with this partner, doing stuff for her first (ya know what I mean), and this app.
I don’t know what specifically from this app helped. I think maybe it’s just because it really keeps you honest, like “hey, this is something you are trying to fix, let’s do some work on it today”. In the past I’d just have a bad experience, feel shitty, repeat.
I’m a big believer in that we can only beat these things through positive reinforcement - ie break the cycle by having a good sexual experience and then fully understanding “I did that, I am capable of that”. Which is why I’m writing this. But to get that first good experience you gotta put in the work.