I’m 24 years old and have had sex sorta once, didn’t get hard really during it and haven’t really been the type to try to have sex, either being too shy or being gout with friends and having them embarrass me or something. Then with my previous girl friend we didn’t have sex for 6 months as she wanted to wait a while due to religion and I just wanted an excuse to not do it then as it was getting to the point of wanting it we stopped really talking as she was busy and things.jusy kinda drifted. So for my first actual time I do it I don’t want to mess us somehow, do I tell them it’s my first Proper time even if it is a one night stand or just remember what I’ve learned and put it into practice
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Remember what you’ve learned. You don’t have to say it’s your “proper” first time because that could set up an unrealistic expectation on the both of you. Just enjoy the moment and be present and don’t get caught up in performing. You got this, champ.