First date and second date

I met a woman at a meetup and got her number. We flirted back and forth a lot for a week I asked her to go to dinner with me, we did and she said she wants to go on another date. I’ve been clear that I’m looking for sex so I might finally get to break this year and a half long sex dry spell after my divorce. Wish me luck. Is it normal to feel rusty after 10 years of marriage?

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Good luck! Hope it goes well

I had an ongoing relationship for 4 years, after splitting apart I abstained from masturbation and pornography for 45 days… anyways. Yes, yes I felt rusty too. It felt strange learning about someone elses sexual interests and even learning new things about my own!

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I spent 2 long sexless years after I divorced and moved to a new city. The first time after that felt great and I once I got down to it I didn’t feel rusty at all. It’s like riding a bike :slight_smile: