Failed tonight and frustrated

Pretty frustrated tonight. Had a great day with my family and feeling very in love with my wife. I joined her in the shower tonight and my erection was strong. But as soon as we took it to bed my anxiety started again. I go so close to being hard enough in bed but then a flood of anxiety went all over my body and my erection stopped. I not giving up on therapy! But was just a really frustrating night. Has been months at this point since penetration has occurred, with lots of attempts.

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Could you have started to have sex in the shower? Maybe tell her you want to have some shower sex and make it a fun flirty game building it up all day until you get home and whisk her upstairs