Pretty frustrated tonight. Had a great day with my family and feeling very in love with my wife. I joined her in the shower tonight and my erection was strong. But as soon as we took it to bed my anxiety started again. I go so close to being hard enough in bed but then a flood of anxiety went all over my body and my erection stopped. I not giving up on therapy! But was just a really frustrating night. Has been months at this point since penetration has occurred, with lots of attempts.
It’s alright, it happens to everyone, don’t let it get in your head. Each time is a new opportunity, don’t stress and allow yourself to enjoy it, even if it doesn’t go perfectly
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Could you have started to have sex in the shower? Maybe tell her you want to have some shower sex and make it a fun flirty game building it up all day until you get home and whisk her upstairs