Ejaculation instead of erection

When I’m aroused I ejaculate (with no feeling) instead of getting an erection. I need help because this is seriously impacting my mental health and makes me avoid sex. It’s been going on for at least 9 years

Are you sure it’s ejaculation? I do think that’s a physical issue you should talk to a doctor about. I wonder about taking something like viagra and touching yourself lightly, trying to create an erection without coming at first? But I’m not a professional and you should probably talk to one :slight_smile: