Distracted when I stop to put some lube on

72 years old. I usually get hard fairly quick lately but I lose it when I stop to put lube on and can’t get it back up

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Wax and wane exercise. Get comfortable with going soft, confident in your ability to bounce back. If it doesn’t immediately, don’t freak out. Soft penis pleasure. Fantasize. Just tune into the subtle sensations even while flaccid, and even other hand on your inner thigh or abdomen and chest. Eroticize the experience. It might help to get hard again when you lose it.

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