I’ve been finding it tricky engaging with mojo content after a month long relationship I was really hopeful for recently ended. I’m in my early 30s, quite inexperienced romantically and sexually, and downloaded the app in part because we were heading in that direction and I had some associated anxieties.
Now that things have ended (it became evident that she wasn’t looking for a relationship and I was + other factors), the content has been difficult to engage with, especially as my fantasies recently have almost exclusively involved her. I’m keen to keep going to better myself and be more ready for future partners, but it’s been hard getting motivated. Not sure if I’m looking for answers, just felt the need to rant.
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I hear you. Maybe spend some time in public and do some people watching, find some people you find attractive and see if you can dream / fantasize about them instead of your ex.
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Don’t think of this in terms of you use mojo for your ex or future partner… instead think that you’re just trying to improve yourself and one day someone will get to experience that
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Good advice. Don’t worry if it takes a bit of time to get back into your body and out of your head. Take things slowly, be kind to yourself. If you can build up some confidence at this time by yourself - when you feel ready to date again you might be able to feel more positive about things. Great that you posted your thoughts - it means that there is part of you that is wanting things to change. Good luck : )
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