Ever since I lost my virginity I have been unable to reach orgasm through any kind of sex act with a partner. Typically when I’m at home masturbating I do not have much of an issue. I feel like the blame can’t be put on porn or “death grip” when masturbating because I wasn’t masturbating much and was not watching porn when I first lost my virginity. I even struggle to finish myself off when a partner is with me.
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It is part of the anxiety. Whenever that happens to me, I always catch myself going in my head… “why are u not there yet?, it is taking too long, I wanna cum, fuck, it won’t go”
So it is totaly in your head, for starters maybe find a position you feel comfortable in, I find that I need to go doggy so I can relax “far from her eyes waiting me to orgasm” and then it happens. Experiment with positions.
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I have exactly the same thing… i believe it kind of ruined all the relationships i had because i am not able to make that dieper connection.
I am not able to enjoy sex a lot because i am always in my head. This is the main reason of using mojo for me.
For some strange reason i am able to cum when i am with escorts. It takes off all my anxiety and performance issues for somekind of reason.