Bottoming sex and enjoying

Im gay and whilst bottoming I don’t feel aroused or pleasure lately, it feels like I lost the loop, when my partner fucks me I feel like I’m not at complete satisfaction


Gotta make the moment last longer. It’s all about the lead up if you think about it, by the time you get to penetration at the end, that’s what you both should be dying for keep doing the stuff that leads up to it.