Been looking for psychosexual therapists and they disappoint me

I’m currently looking for psychosexual therapists and it’s been tough. The first one I booked sessions with drifted off from my goals and started giving me weird life advice.

I’m speaking to a second one but he doesn’t seem to relate to me or makes it again about my life.

And the trouble is that I can’t explain my life to these therapists because I’m systemically marginalised. So how do they think they even offer life skill advice and what the fck does that have to do with my psychosexual struggles? I know what my problems are, and I also don’t know what my problems are, which have nothing to do with my psychosexual issues.

It’s an invasion of my privacy and it’s kinda shocking. It becomes this waste of money.