I’ve experienced DE for as long as I can remember and now being 52 I find it virtually impossible to cum from penetration. If the wife gives me a BJ or has me finish by me masturbating on her breast I can finish. Would really like to get back to finishing from penetration, any tips???
Ejaculation normally slows with age but if it is bothering you then you can try and work out ways of increasing the arousal when you need it. Sometimes it can be quite an unconscious problem, especially if it has been an issue for a long time. Practicing getting out of your head and into your body will help this process. : )
Somewhat similar age and situation - I recall a Sinfield episode where George complained about ‘taking a long time’ before ‘getting there’. My wife and I have sex a couple of times a week and I notice that I put a lot of mental stress about to maintain a healthy weekly average. I’m noticing from Mojo that I’ve moved into Observer Mode which is what I’m working on now. It’s certainly helped me stay focused and enjoy the moment and cum during penetrative sex. Perhaps that Mojo section on Observer mode may help you too. Keep us posted. Hope it goes well this week. 