60 year old former professional fighter. Just went through a painful divorce after 25 year marriage to the love of my life. I am active in the poly/bdsm lifestyle and have two girlfriends, one is 44 and the other is 24. I am able to get an erection and perform but struggle with ED at certain times. Sometimes I am not able to get an erection at all, usually when thoughts of my ex-wife enter my mind.