Your questions around porn for expert Q&A session Nov. 27

helpp i wanna lose my virginity and i have a girl to do it with but its always been hard for me in the past getting hard for girls how do i not be anxious? do i get drunk? idk bruh help

The only time I watch porn is when I’m on cocaine. I’ll watch it for hours on end, never wanking, just watching scene after scene. I don’t do coke often but what effects could this potentially be having on me?

Does porn lead us to thinking our parters want a ‘better’ sexual partner than us?

I lost my long time wife over a year ago. I am a 45 year old male. I have moved on. I met a new partner 6 months ago. Our first sexual experience — I went soft. It took/taking a toll on my everyday life and our sexual life. Since then, we have had sex, I’ve had erections, but I rely on Viagara much of the time. To my point….I masturbate on average 2 times a day, I believe I do this often to prove to myself I can hold an erection, or to find relief from stress/depression. Performance anxiety is obvious due to weaker erections with her. Is my issue mainly due to constant masturbation / porn?

As well as struggling to get it up and keep it up, or fuming quickly, I find I’m just not horny ever. I don’t masturbate or watch porn and I very rarely get an erection ever. Is this psychological or physical?