I started my problems in my late 20’s when I took ecstacy at raves and couldn’t get erections. Someone suggested viagra and it solved the problem and after a while I was able to take the drug and get an erection without the pill. Years later, I no longer do drugs but my inner voice has become so loud that I’m no longer able to just stay in the moment and let go my thoughts which allow me to be turned on and erections have become a huge issue and now I’m completely reliant on taking viagra, even to mastubate. It’s definitely a mental thing and it’s getting me down.
Feeling the same. So little encouragement offered. I am part way through phase 6 and honestly have seen zero improvement. Feeling like there is little hope for me.
Been on the mojo program for over a month now and have also cut out all Cialis. Used to constantly worry about if I’m dosed up and ready to perform… it was driving me mad! It’s been tough getting through the psychological barrier but slowly seeing progress. I’ve had a few lovely sex sessions with my wife , slowly getting out of the thoughts in my head , trusting in the program .
I will never return to the pills . The marketing of these pills is outrageous. Men need to talk and be open not turn to pharma for help…only a small percentage of men have an actual physical issue…the issue is psychological and ultimately the pills make it worse. Believe me.
The best advice would be never to start.
Do they actually work for psychological ED?
Pretty sure my partial eye sight loss is due to viahra
Anxiety pills like clonazepam or alprazolam help or worsen ED of different etiologies?
My doctor told me that if these pills are effective, the problem is not of cardiovascular origin. This didn’t strike me as accurate. Is this correct?
Hi , not had sex for over 3 years due to relationship breaking up . Really worried as always anxious, performance conscious. First 2 times nothing 3 rd time getting there . Started eating healthier, training to give myself self esteem. It’s all going in the right direction.
The 3 year gap has been awful and upsetting as I didn’t know what would happen and I over think everything. All I have to say is it’s a competition your in to win .
You don’t always win at everything in life but give it a go health wise . I’m now waking up aroused . Hasn’t happened for years as worry ruled .
The bottom line is this , women like all kinds of pleasing not just being penetrated.
It does not define you and women are much more aware . Do we say no because you’ve had kids or your breasts are too big / small . Hopefully people look at the bigger picture what you bring.
Really sending big hugs and warmth man and hope you get comfortable closure .
Took Viagra 3 rd time . Might as well have used a Jaffa cake . Not a wonder thing for me…
Any recommendations on supplements in addition to viagra?
They do work but there has to be a desire to. Like arousal.
If all signs point to my ED being psychological, and I’ve never taken any pills or herbs - do you recommend staying off them? I’ve always been worried it would just become a crutch and I might not be able to have sex without such products ever again.
I’m in the same boat. I think going from constant sex in a relationship where your partner doesn’t care about how long u last or anything like that completely drops your anxiety levels. For me the hardest thing is getting used to not having a girl all over you and in your ear talking dirty. I know girls are more sexually aroused by words or just small things that a man does. I think for myself I have to get used to becoming the guy to initiate all this and it adds to my anxiety. Most girls that I hookup with I can have sex with them due to this, but with other girls it is very difficult because they may want to have sex and it just seems like they aren’t all into you.
Taking cialis long term at age 40?
Jeremy S
I’ve just begun using generic Viagra because my partner is very sexual, and has tremendous endurance and is multi-orgasmic. She doesn’t know that I’m taking the pills. I’m concerned about being dependent on the pills. I did a lot of drugs when I was younger, when I started each new drug it enhanced my enjoyment and endurance. I don’t use any drugs now. I’m afraid that psychologically I’ve forgotten how to enjoy the moment during sex without some enhancement.
Been using sildenafil in micro doses of 12.5mg. Actually helps a lot but I’m not sure if it’s bad for me?
Will the pills have long lasting negative effects on me? I feel as if the pill does nothing for me now and that thought makes me feel like I am broken beyond repair.
I have taken cialis and it works sometimes. When it works it realllly works but it doesn’t always. I do like that it lasts for over a day so I can be spontaneous. But, it gives me wicked headaches and heartburn, so it’s a bit of a mood killer since I feel like I’m hung over.
How can a man get out of his head that he “isn’t big enough” psyched myself out a number of times because of this thought. Any ideas on some help?