Why do you want to be more mindful during sex?

So I can stop overthinking

My own pleasure

So I can prevent my mind from wandering and focusing instead on the sensations.

I want sex to flow and feel natural and spontaneous. I want to be in touch with the moment and not my insecurities. I want to connect deeply with my partner on an emotional level regardless of what my penis is doing.

I want to focus more on my partner than my own ability to perform