Who are your male role models?

I admire men that are not afraid to show love to their spouse.

Guys who can just be themselves outside no matter the situation even at work and make it natural

My male role models are my dad and my friend Scott.
My dad unapologetically lives and loves how he wants.
My friend Scott runs with his personality at full speed with no regret.

My friend is always himself he’s not afraid of being seen as feminine or silly he just does what he wants

My friend Theo. I’ve always considered him as being born in the wrong era. Sometimes the coolest cat, other times coming off like a pretentious douche, but always authentic. He loves hard and soaks up life. I’d like to take a few leaves out of his book

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Men who have the ability to charm and be funny without even trying. Who can be goofy and get away with it. Cause that’s who I naturally am but I don’t get away with it.

Men who can be social and control situations effortlessly.

I don’t struggle with masculinity in these ways, but the guys I’ve admired are kind, giving and receptive and don’t identity themselves outwardly as masculine even if they have those attributes

A man is somebody who is so confident in who he is that even when arrows are flung his way, he stands on his integrity

Men who can make others smile and laugh, men who help others feel safe and secure, showing and talking about your feelings and ideas.

Kind and confident. Relaxed.

Men living to the beat of their own drum, who are genuine, helpful, respectful and nice to people around them and there’s no ego and hurting others involved.

Men who are genuine and can make their own decisions without being persuaded to think in a certain way or like a certain individual or not because that is what others already think

Men who are confident, kind and understanding. Those who have the ability to live life their own way with out shame or fear.

Someone who is strong, and kind. Has his shit together and can be himself confidently

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Men who aren’t afraid to show vulnerabiltiy, and be active listeners to others who need support. That is strength.

I look up to a friend of mine that is open about his sexuality. He is willing to talk about the things that he is into even if they are not typical desires. I look up to his openness, seeing him do this gives me inspiration to set aside some of the shame I have about sex as a whole and be willing to communicate with my partner the different things I would like to try. This has deepened the connection with my partner as I was willing to be vulnerable and open up to her. She loved that I was willing to tell her these things, We exchange our kinky sexual desires in a safe space which has connected us and allowed both of us to start exploring our deep desires.

Men who have integrity, mental fortitude, who are good to themselves, and good to others

I don’t really have anyone in mind specifically but I admire anyone who does the right thing most of the time and is passionate about what they do regardless of how “impressive” or “high-level” it is

Someone who leads with love, integrity and charisma.