Ooof. This one is really hard. I don’t have good male role models. Either my dad or step dad were particularly good to me growing up, so I’ve loved my life in opposition to what they represent to me, both on opposite sides of the emotional spectrum, but a bit extreme on both accounts.
In my teens, I looked up to the lead singer of the band Pearl Jam. In the world of music suicides in the 90s, he always came across as a principled, ethical centred man, who also happened to be attractive and emotionally open to sing about pain and loss. I know he runs some disability charities with his wife and daughters, so maybe he’s still the one to follow.
I never really had male role models. I like some of the qualities my step dad has. He’s compassionate, protective, and always level-headed. I think every man should be able to stand up for himself. Not run away when a challenge comes and always pursue his goals
Can’t really think of any tbh
Lawrence of Arabia always seemed like a passionate controlled man in the movie. I always resonated with his outsider stance in any group he was a member of. Someone who’s likely be a proponent of the mind over matter being taught here
I admire men who are secure in who they are and what masculinity means to them without needing to conform in any way
I just realized my version of male role models don’t have sex.
My male role models are stoics… but I also respect men who try to help men be integrated - not nice guys trying to please others but instead try to be authentic - realizing and accepting who they are allows them to be their authentic self
My dad is a huge role model. I wish i could be more like him in many ways. More excepting, more compassionate, more determined.
Can’t name him but he’s so confident in everything he does i envy him for being so confident
I reckon it’s all the men here currently discussing such vulnerable topics and being so open. I’m doing the same too right here. We are examples of masculinity in that we are taking control of our issues and addressing them with virtue and determination. Keep it up gentleman.
My former electrician boss, he is a know it all down right man that flirts with many women and they flirt back despite his older age
My queer friend who really lives the way they want and possess this great charm!
Men in recovery with me who are honest and vulnerable. Men who let go of the judgment of others and live authentically without fear or worry or need for others approval
Men who are composed. That don’t lash out in anger when shit doesn’t go right. Men that can say fuck it and try again without beating themselves up. Men who stand up for themselves and others.
Men that are persistent, consistent, bold yet humble, not emotional wrecks, stand up for what they believe in. Natural leaders
A man who is a good father
Men who dont take shit from people and protect their loved ones with their lives.
A man who put others above himself and is willing to make sacrifices for the betterment of those he cares about. A continued drive for success and greatness.
Men who are clearly unambiguously themselves and don’t care what other people think, who run to the beat of their own drum
My grandpa. He never complained about anything. Was respected and fun to be around, though quiet and contemplative.