When you have a girl for a sleepover and you know you are not having sex because of whatever reasons

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That is when I started to notice that my issue might be mental. She said she is not ready yet for sex so we were just making out in bed before sleeping. And I was fully in the moment, hard non stop from start to finish (I was still spectatoring a bit but it didn’t bother me much since I knew I will not habe to use my dick so was very relieved). I remained hard for over an hour while playing, despite having watched a lot of porn that week (usually I blame me not getting hard on wanking too much or overstimulating my brain with intense porn visuals).

Does anyone else have this relief feeling when you know you are just doing foreplay and won’t have to use your dick? Which in turn results in your dick getting super hard?

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I went though a similar period. When meeting my girl or if she was stopping over I had a huge wave of relief when I knew she was menstruating so I knew it wasn’t going to happen.
I was a completely different person
What I would say is keep doing the meditations and pelvic floor !
I am in a much better place now and getting that inner critic out of head is the key

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I can definitely relate to this! Feel like when you know nothing is going to happen, the inner critic switches off and you just enjoy it. And tbf just hugging, kissing and cuddling feel pretty good. I guess part of it is trying to use this mindset/focus in foreplay to completely relax into sex

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