It doesn’t matter how amazing it feels when we are touching each other or having sex. It just never leads to orgasm.
I’m in a new relationship,just weeks off 1 year. I’m attracted to him in so many ways.He is attentive,Must say has a Big Penis,and sex feels so good..I’m peri menopausal,My body has changed so much,widened & my stomach is big & flappy.I just about get to orgasm,then it goes away,or after a while I fake it & he cums.I get inside my head & feel unattractive.I can experience an orgasm with some toys I have.Unforturnatley not with him! I was in an abusive controlling relationship for 30 years with my ex..I avoided sex as much as I could.Yet he could make me cum.My Partner now,Is amazing treats me So good.Im so into him.Hes a wonderful lover,With a bigger penis..I cannot orgasm?
That I haven’t gotten one, and want one, I’m want sex all the time, I try to relax and enjoy myself but still no orgasm. I’m so sex positive so why’s this happening to me
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I’m very upfront and vocal about my needs in bed & what it takes to make me arrive. When I was YOUNG like 4-8ish, I had urges already but didn’t understand . WTF? I was feeling or how to deal with the feeling, so I would do this weird thing with my stomach. I’m 33 & I CAN NOT orgasam unless im doing the stomach thing with my hand and being stimulated by my partner. It limits positions a lot. I understand Im not going to orgasm from sex every time, but forplay before or after can do the job also.
I was with same person from age 19-32 and he was able to make me cum with his eyes closed after that long! But now that im dating again, it’s been quite the struggle & awkward…
Im going to purchase a small little bullet vibrator to use on myself, so I dont have to rely only on the guy for clitoral stimulation & also being able to cum in different positions.
Man, it really is true! Womans sex drive does go through the roof in the 30s! Im like an animal…yet the few guys I’ve dated act like they all have E.D & and annoyed… its been really discouraging. They have all been only a few years older/younger than me…I figured most men would be excited as hell to be with a woman who is down almost all day/everyday?!?
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Me and my husband have sec a lot but it hard for me to orgasm I can do it by myself rubbing or using a vibrator but when it comes to having sex with him it just doesn’t happen and he feels some kind of way about vibrators like he is competing
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I can only get slightly climaxed from outer clit and not inner
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the sensation from my clit being stimulated is too much/overwhelming for me.
35 and I’m experiencing exactly what you are my ass being with someone for that long but it sucks it makes me feel like I’m gross or why doesn’t he want like I don’t understand I know that they go through their sex whenever it’s called whatever and they’re 20sbbut it’s ridiculous I’m about to go find myself a women
What works one time doesn’t seem to work the next time.
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When man try to be dominant but they are not good at it and I feel like I’m acting instead of actually enjoying myself
I think my problem is I seem to always stop myself almost like it’s too much. My boyfriend can make me squirt which is a first for me. Which I believe is not the same as an orgasm. But there seems to have been a disconnect between us lately which puts me in my head a lot even during sex which is usually when I feel closest to him. He isn’t very emotionally mature due to his own trauma so we don’t really have deep convos a lot and sex is like how we communicate. I just want to be able to reach an orgasm not basically “edge” my own self.
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My bf always wanting me to pleasure him but he’s not willing to do the same for me and it makes me feel like I am not good enough or I am gross and disgusting to him.
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I am sexually immature. At 37yrs old I feel like a child learning something I already should know.
ALL of my adult life I have had sex For the other persons please, for money or drugs.
Now that I am sober and living life sober, it’s all new and TBH rather scary.
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Correction-Pleasure**
I never know what feels good to me in order to organize. It’s different almost every time.
Knowing that I have orgasmed
The amount of time it takes to have an orgasm now from what it used to, feels like my body refuses to no matter how close and pressure us built up. Feels like my body is failing me …
I want to enjoy sex. I want to experience the level of intimacy that comes with sexual exploration, especially with someone I love. I have never truly enjoyed sex because of my fear of my partner thinking I’m “weird”.
I can relate to this so much
for me personally I only need one thing to orgasm and that is having a man lick my clit.. I was 27 when I had my first orgasm I always thought something was wrong with me until I got out of a relationship and had sex with someone new and just so happened that he loved to go down on women and for the first time in my entire life I not only had one orgasm but I had at least 10 in one session and I continue to have multiple orgasms everyday so if I can give you any type of advice based on my experience clitoral stimulation more specifically oral clitoral stimulation because toys feel nice but nothing nothing beats having a warm wet tongue slowly lick you to orgasm again and again. we’re giving so much misinformation regarding our orgasms to the point where people even want to deny that is possible that we have one it’s insane command that one point I considered going to the doctor because I thought something was wrong with me and my body and now for the last 6 years not only am I having orgasms every single day but there seems to be no limit to the amount of orgasms I can have I’ve had 50 back to back to back and it’s not hard to do in fact I’m super easy to give an orgasm to I just did not know I needed clitoral stimulation for the longest time and my past partners never cared or maybe they didn’t know either so sorry for a long comment just excited about this app and trying to help.