What's one thought you can reprogram today? (early climax-dedicated thread)

I am able to get hard but once I start having sex I lose my erection and I know it’s psychological and need to figure it out.

That my partner is disappointed in me

My partner should be and probably wants to be with someone where sex is easy, it shouldn’t be this hard.

I am disappointing my partner.

In reality there is none of that and if anything they’re just caring for me

My partner is always up set with me because im not always wanting to have sex because of problems in the relationship

Estou a desapontar a minha parceira por não conseguir satisfazer sexualmente

The negative thought I can reprogram is that having a hard cock at the moment my wife wants it is something that should come naturally. That I should be hard without her doing anything to turn me on.

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I’ve had the same negative thought many times. Feeling that you have to go straight into penetration the moment you are hard, lest you lose it, makes putting on a condom almost impossible.

I won’t get hard if this encounter escalates

My partner will leave me or lose interest if I can’t get hard

One way of turning me on is having oral sex. I think my partner doesn’t like performing oral on me, but actually I don’t really have that much evidence that is something that upsets her

Am I going to get hard?
Am I going to stay hard?

Will I get hard? And will I stay hard?

Will I last longer than a few strokes when its super wet

My partner is disappointed in me.

My partner will cheat if I can’t get hard and please her.

Im not a normal man if i cum too quickly

If I don’t cum then she doesn’t enjoy herself.

I was worried about not being hard enough and losing my erection. In reality, it was hard enough, and she came.

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I worry I will never cum inside my partners so rarely do