With a long term partner I’d feel alright with it (assuming they’re not an egg head) but I don’t know about sharing too much with flings and one night stands… Maybe make light of something with them but not go DEEP into it
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Better. I was open about it early on in our relationship. We then kind of just brushed past it for years. It recently came back up a decade later because it has not gotten any better. That is what brought me here. I think now it will be good to check in every time we have sex.
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In my past relationship I didn’t talk about it, looking back it was something that really bothered my partner. I should have been more open to talking more about it.
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Nervous, of course, but I was finally honest about this prior to starting Mojo, and now she tells me how proud she is of me for doing these exercises
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Comfortable at Least
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I’m blessed to have the most caring and wonderful partner with whom I can talk to about these issues
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I have embraced expressing my vulnerabilities as a way to make my life easier for many years. I find when you take that step to admit your struggle, people trust you more and are more willing to listen and help you. Because I believe for the most part, all humans love compassionate giving when given the opportunity to do it.
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I was so nervous when I first shared. My partner is supportive, and I believe understands.
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I don’t have an issue with telling the women I’m dating about my ED struggles in the past and that I’m working through it still. I completely see how bringing it up can relieve pressure and stress. I am hesitant about how they will take the information though and how I tell them. Bringing it up out of the blue feels forced and may shock them to much. But if the moment feels right I will definitely bring it up, making sure to channel my confident self in my explanation so as not to appear a burden or a handful (mind the pun). If they nice people, they’ll either so this won’t work for me, or that’s ok thank you for telling me. At the end of the day, I can lose a little but gain a lot
It feels rlly hard but I feel like I’m hyping it up to be something way bigger. At the end of the day it is what it is and I can imagine being vulnerable would be quite helpful
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I have had to. We married before having sex, and I didn’t realize there was an issue. We have shared beautiful moments, but I haven’t been able to penetrate her yet. I want to.
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No issue at. I’ve talked to my wife at length about it and she’s really supportive
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I’m going to try this next time
A bit nervous - almost feels like I’m talking myself into it happening, but I can also see that it could take the surprise away if it does happen and perhaps they would be supportive / collaborate - rather than being let down
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I’m in a long term relationship and honestly it becomes a very touchy subject for us: that maybe because of my own insecurity and vulnerability around it all
Part of me feels so ready to have sex and is not worried about getting it up anymore that being up me ED issues almost feels like tempting fate. But I know I’ll feel even better once it’s off my chest and in then open. I think bringing it up when not in a sexual situation will be the best time. Then when I am in a sexual situation I and they will have already got over it
I never really have the opportunity but I think I communicate well. It’s their reaction that typically makes me think less of myself.
I feel to nervous and embarrassed to talk about it and I’ve been with my wife for 10 years.
I wasn’t always like this. But latley I’ve been in my head to much…