I hate early climax
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I think i would be terrified to talk to my partner about my issues. I would like to talk about ways we both enjoy playing though.
It’s intimidating but I can see the clear benefit
Terrifying but the result of doing it seems to be the most amazing way forward.
I feel anxious because I’ve avoided talking about erection issues for far too long.
I’m too scared to be intimate with my wife.
Terrified but they understand and we will work together to make it better
The thought about opening up to a potential partner about this seems terrifying
It’s an awkward barrier I need to overcome to break through
Totally fine with a long term partner as erection issues disappear for me after a few times with a partner. A little awkward with someone new - it’s anxiety inducing I’d prefer it to just go smoothly straight away and I do work myself up about it. I don’t want them to judge me or make it a self fulfilling prophecy
I feel somewhat comfortable depends on how long or how comfortable we are together to talk about that
I don’t feel like it’s something I can do, it feels like my own personal problem and I wouldn’t want to share it and because I’ve not started with the statement it feels too far along to bring it up
ED is a relatively new issue with my wife after our second kid. Our chances to have sex have gone way down, and each chance feels like more pressure because a missed chance is like 3 more weeks of nothing. We also don’t do any foreplay. She turns down receiving oral sex, and I don’t know how to ask for it. I’m terrified of asking my wife to connect with me more physically, even if it’s just making out. I can’t put my finger on why, maybe it’s the fear of rejection. But I need to ask her directly, can’t dance around it anymore.
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ED is a hard subject to talk about. I don’t think my girlfriend understands that’s it’s not a choice I’m making and that I am not less because of it.
it can feel awkward sharing because i feel like it’s hard to explain articulately but i can see how it’s good to work on communication whether you’re single or in a relationship
It feels a little awkward, but it’s freeing when I don’t have to hide these issues under the carpet.
Mine was pretty easy cause my wife was pretty much the cause of it. She felt bad and we were able to have open conversations and she took the issue on as teamwork.
It’s always been difficult to talk about as my partner is so anti talking about sex. She gets really cringe when I discuss it and shuts me down. Very defensive and I don’t know how to overcome it
I don’t have a partner but when I do, I’ll certainly try this technique
I find it easy to talk to my partner about my erection issue and he’s open to it and aware. What I don’t enjoy is that fact that I bring it up quite often and can feel embarrassed sharing this, even though it’s with my partner
I’m stressed out a lot with work, and I love my wife and wanna give it to her every chance I get but I’m tired a lot and can’t get on the mood and get it up when it counts. It’s straining
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