A sense of pleasure, anticipation, and release.
I like to do nasty and filthy things to my partners. I like to be in total complete and absolute control. I want them to feel like they are there for my pleasure. I also enjoy pleasing my partner. But I want them to trust me completely and know that I’m a leader in the bedroom who cares about both of our pleasure. Including our animalistic desires. 
I will definitely get hard and definitely stay hard and we will both be happy
It’s the sharing of pleasure and intimacy between two people that is authentic and risky and fun
That it’s about connection and sensation, not penetration and ejaculation
For me sex is an amazing and pleasurable channel of connection in which you can explore other aspects of what you are, what you want in and for your partner and hidden desires. I like to think I can have rough sex and also cuddle in the same night.
The ability to drop the logical, level-headed part of me and plug into something more primal and animalistic
Getting my needs met and releasing the animal that I know lies dormant under the surface. To express my darkness and experience pleasure and connection with my partner.