The myth I struggle with is “I’m a man so I should get hard instantly and fuck 4-5 times a day”. I’m not a hentai MC, I’m human and sometimes I’m not in the mood and that is perfectly acceptable.
That I should be able to get an erection on demand
That I’m less of a man for having a low sex drive and erection problems.
That porn has caused me to have irrational fantasies and that I am desensitized to real life sex because of the amount of time I have spent watching it.
That as a man I should always be ready for penetrative sex, always.
That I should be hard quickly into foreplay
That all men are exquisitely hung
That I should be hard
Immediately
That I need to be bigger
That I should be hard as soon as I think about having sex
That I should be instantly hard at any sexual thing.
That is should get hard quickly during foreplay
That I should always be in the mood and ready to have sex straight away.
I used to think this but then lesbians dont have dicks and they look like they are having a great time still.
That Cumming will take longer without porn
That watching porn has made me climax faster
That i should be able to maintain a solid erection for hours without a break
That older people can’t have regular, satisfying sex.
That I can have satisfying sex without an erection. Maybe other people can, but that seems like a contradiction in terms for me personally.
Bigger is better. If I’m in bed with a woman, at that point they already want to have sex with me anyway