Well I know this isn’t true, I commonly feel in the moment that If I lose my erection, I can’t get it back
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That if I don’t keep my erection before penetrative sex, it means I’m not attracted to that person.
That masterbating will cause your performance to be worse
That once i feel anxious during sex i wont be able to overcome it and achieve an erection.
Idk
That getting hard quickly and staying hard the whole time is what makes me a man
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If I’m not able to quickly get an erection and maintain it, I will let my partner down. Also that I need to be able to stay hard and come end or else my partner will be upset
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That my partner won’t enjoy sex with me if I’m not hard the whole time.
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That men should be hard all the time and want sex always. Or that if a guy loses an erection, women think it’s from them
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Gosh same as all the other comments here, it’s the false picture of the male role. For me that’s coupled with a false assumption that everyone else is just hard all the time and I’m not
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watching porn gives erection issues. I do feel like it makes me compare myself to what I see which causes anxiety or doubt to settle in
I have consistently had to explain to my partners over the years that this is absolutely a “me” problem and i know that. The quickest turn around time ive had as far as maintaining to finish has been when a partner said “its ok, i care about you, its no big deal” unfortunately most havent been as understanding.
Watching porn doesn’t desensitise you from actual sex.