Well I know this isn’t true, I commonly feel in the moment that If I lose my erection, I can’t get it back
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That if I don’t keep my erection before penetrative sex, it means I’m not attracted to that person.
That masterbating will cause your performance to be worse
That once i feel anxious during sex i wont be able to overcome it and achieve an erection.
Idk
That getting hard quickly and staying hard the whole time is what makes me a man
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If I’m not able to quickly get an erection and maintain it, I will let my partner down. Also that I need to be able to stay hard and come end or else my partner will be upset
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That my partner won’t enjoy sex with me if I’m not hard the whole time.
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That men should be hard all the time and want sex always. Or that if a guy loses an erection, women think it’s from them
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Gosh same as all the other comments here, it’s the false picture of the male role. For me that’s coupled with a false assumption that everyone else is just hard all the time and I’m not
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watching porn gives erection issues. I do feel like it makes me compare myself to what I see which causes anxiety or doubt to settle in
I have consistently had to explain to my partners over the years that this is absolutely a “me” problem and i know that. The quickest turn around time ive had as far as maintaining to finish has been when a partner said “its ok, i care about you, its no big deal” unfortunately most havent been as understanding.
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Watching porn doesn’t desensitise you from actual sex.
None really, I don’t think it was a problem for me
Probably the fear of not lasting long enough. I want to make sure my partner is having the same, if not better, experience than I am, and if I cum too fast then I’m not pleasuring her to the fullest
This happened twice with me, which made me get the app. I had to assure my partner I find her attractive and sexy to not hurt her self esteem. Luckily she’s fantastic and is supportive of me learning, but the first moments afterwards were incredibly awkward.
One myth that always had me was that women were less sexual, liked sex any less than men, or were difficult to please. All simply untrue.
Also, guys are not ‘competing’ against her toys. You’re on the same team.
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Sex has to be penetration.
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Everyone else stays rock hard
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It’s always easy for both parties to enjoy each other and no erection issues